One of the most gratifying things about this blogging experience has been the extent to which it has been possible to develop what I’m sure are genuine friendships. There are a number of people who I have ‘met’ only virtually and yet I feel confident that I can count them among my friends. National borders and sheer distance are not barriers over the net.
One of the earliest and best friends I’ve made is a retired UMC minister. Let’s call him H, because that is what I do, in fact, call him. H is rare among my internet friends in that we have actually met in the flesh. A couple of years ago he and his wife invited me and my family to stay with them in their home for a few days and I’m bound to say that it was a thoroughly delightful experience, one of the highlights of a trip to the States.
H’s son Eric is a blogger, and I’ve been reading his blog for a little while. Now I discover that H’s brother, also a retired UMC pastor, has a blog too. And his niece. That’s practically a blogging dynasty.
I’m really going to have to have another go at H about posting here.
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H 09.25.06 at 5:16 am
Some friends just won’t give up. (Thank Rich and God, not in that order.)
When it comes right down to it, keeping close friendships intact irequires perseverance, even with the bestt of desire and intention.
On the other hand, how many international email relationships become truly first-hand comrades extending beyond just the writers to their wives and children?
Well, it does happen (At least, it has one time I know of.) and continues despite distance, poor contact at times, the best of hopes nonetheless.
Thanks Rich, my love to you, Jayne and the girls. You truly are an internet treasure and so much more.
WY,
H
Richard 09.27.06 at 6:39 am
Not giving up is what it’s about, H!